[Hildy]

Not me, but they were very young and I wouldn't make the leap from controlling to murderer.

[syriacus]

Not me, but they were very young and I wouldn't make the leap from controlling to murderer.

Signs to Look for in an Abusive Personality, 1.Jealousy:  [snip] The abuser may refuse to let her work for fear she will meet someone else, or exhibit other strange behaviors (like checking her car mileage or asking friends to watch her).