I think he’s wrong on this. If they were just having a kind of party where they announced they were a “couple,” that might be okay, depending on how well you knew them and liked them...if they were family members to whom you felt you had to be kind, for example. But calling it a “wedding” makes it something else.
I would just send a present and my best wishes for their future (but not on their sham “marriage”) and not attend.
They know perfectly well when they invite you that you probably won’t want to go, and this is an aggressive act by the political gays to try to force everybody, based on friendship and guilt, to approve their agenda.
Keep the friendship (if they are willing to do so if you don’t attend their sham “wedding”) but don’t let them make it look as if you approve of their agenda.
Calling it a wedding does indeed make it something else. Namely, eligible for rights and priviliges under the law. Which is why same sex marriage will be legalized completely.
If you want to save traditional marriage, you’ll have to get rid of those rights and privileges.
I read the link. Supposedly he said he would attend a wedding if it were someone he loved. So what would most Freepers do if your son/daughter was getting “married” to someone of the same sex?