I believe the little boys should be removed from the home. I believe they should be tenderly placed with the grandparents and gently spoken to by grief counselors-and encouraged to speak of what they have observed or maybe even experienced in the supposed sanctity of their own home, so that if things were as rotten there as reports indicate, these little boys have the opportunity to understand that life can be different, can be safe, can be free of strangers being intimate with parents, etc.
I agree with Pierce. All things considered, until the lifestyle of the Von Dam's can be demonstrated as NOT responsible for the apparent lack of safety that caused a little one's ultimate death, it is the responsibility of EVERYONE who suspects or has concrete knowledge of the activities in that so called home to come forward and protect those left to suffer in the abyss.
I know it will hurt the Von Dam's greatly to lose their sons temporarily. But it would certainly be more important to ensure the safety and grief support for the little boys. These two KNOW what went on in their home. Now they need to know that people love them.