The speculation and rumor-mongering regarding this horrific story does not reflect well onto this website, jmho...
Trust me, it's not 10% of what is being said every hour on talk radio in San Diego.
If the VDs are not swingers, they are going to OWN several radio stations for libel and slander when this is over.
But they deny nothing, nothing, they just evade and hide behind PR flacks.
Most of us agree that no one can possibly know what the parents are going through. Especially if they've never had to file a missing person report. It's the worst pain a parent can feel.