[fella]

Who will weep at your grave? And who will inherit what you build?

Like all so called happy people you sound very selfish.

[rko1933]

Having children,just to be sure someone will weep at your grave?What a selfless idea....NOT!!

[another1]

Who will weep at your grave?

Why would I wish for that? I hope that those who know me best will be glad that I lived a full, happy, and meaningful life. For others to experience grief and sorrow, particularly those I love, has never been one of my aspirations.

And who will inherit what you build?

I am not waiting for the end of my days to pass on the rewards of my life to those I care about. Sharing the things I love, my accomplishments, and the joy I find in life every day, enhances my life, and hopefully the lives of those who know me - every day.

Like all so called happy people you sound very selfish.

On the contrary, it seems to me that anyone who rejoices in their own children's anticipated grief and sorrow is rather selfish.

[Bella_Bru]

Who will weep at your grave?

You are having kids so you can have extra funeral guests, but those of us who do not want kids (yet have no problem with your choices) are SELFISH?