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Teen testifies he was totally teacher's pet
Miami Herald ^ | December 4, 2001 | CAROLINE J. KEOUGH

Posted on 12/04/2001 4:20:54 PM PST by PJ-Comix

The middle school student who police say had an 18-month affair with his teacher testified at her trial Monday that he lived a teenage fantasy.

The teen said Beth Friedman, 43, seduced him by plying him with lavish gifts -- trips, money, clothes, jewelry, a car and drugs -- and even did his homework for him.

The affair was a fantasy, Friedman's lawyer countered, but one that existed purely in the teen's imagination.

Friedman is charged with indecent assault, unlawful sexual activity with a minor and contributing to the delinquency of a minor. She faces 76 years in prison if convicted.

``She was the teacher everybody wanted because she let you do whatever you wanted in her class,'' the teen, now 19 and working as a roofer, testified in the first day of Friedman's trial. ``I could do stuff other people would get in trouble for, and she would just look the other way and pretend she didn't notice. So I started to sit at her desk just to see what would happen, and she just let me sit there all the time.''

The teen, who was 14 when he met Friedman, testified that he used drugs, his grades in school were ``horrible,'' and he was often in trouble for fighting. He said his friendship with Friedman grew as she began giving him rides home from school, and eventually became friends with his mother, the teen testified.

He would eat lunch with Friedman and another teacher in their room because he was new to Silver Lakes Middle School and couldn't get along with other kids in the cafeteria.

``They ordered pizza and Chinese food,'' the teen testified. ``I'd come back bragging to the other kids `I had Chinese food for lunch, what did you have?' ''

She started doing his school work, and getting permission from other teachers to let him sit in her room all day.

``She'd take my work from me and do it. Sometimes I didn't even know it was done. I'd just get a grade back,'' he said.

Friedman started taking him and his younger brother to a video arcade, then to movies and out to dinner.

``I'd page her and say: `Me and my friends are hungry,' and she'd come take us out to eat,'' he said. ``But then it got too expensive so she'd just take me and one friend out.''

Eventually, the teen's brother, mother and mother's boyfriend moved into Friedman's Hollywood condo. She took the boy on trips to Busch Gardens, Universal Studios and the Keys, with her and the teen sleeping in one bed and a friend of his or his brother sleeping in another, he said.

On one of those trips, he said, e Friedman performed a sex act on him while his brother slept. On the way home in the car, he said ]she performed another.

When he was 15, he wanted a car.

``She said: `If you have sex with me I'll buy you a car,' '' said the teen, who chewed gum and played with a rubber band on the witness stand. ``So I did, and she did.''

The teen said Friedman gave him money to buy drugs, introduced him to cocaine and would challenge him to contests to see who could take the most Xanax without falling asleep. She also bought him lavish gifts and let him drive her car and her father's Rolls-Royce, he said.

``Whatever I wanted, she got it for me,'' he said.

But Friedman's lawyer, David Bogenschutz, peppered the boy with questions about his story, particularly the teen's assertion that the affair ended after Friedman offered him $25,000 to impregnate her.

The teen said he asked his mother, who had been unaware of the affair, for advice. She went to the police, and he got angry because he didn't want the affair to end. He moved out of the house and in with a stripper, but sent Friedman notes asking for money.

Broward Circuit Judge Stanton Kaplan occasionally had to intervene when the teen gave defiant answers to Bogenschutz's questions.

``Why would a law school-educated teacher, who lives in a nice place, who drives a newer Jeep Cherokee, whose father drives a Rolls-Royce, pay $25,000 to be impregnated by a 16-year-old dropout with a drug habit?'' Bogenschutz asked the boy, who shrugged his shoulders in response.

Prosecutor Stacey Honowitz told jurors that no matter how consensual or bizarre the relationship seemed, it is still against the law for an adult to have sex with a minor.

``She did it for love, she did it because she craved him,'' Honowitz said. ``The theory that she's a wonderful, beautiful teacher can't protect her when she crossed that line.''

The trial continues today.


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To: Torie
Nothing fraudulent about sexual abuse. Whether he considers it abuse or not, it still is. Mental anguish definately occurs when your exploited by a cheap old hooker. No...I don't see anything fraudulent about it.
161 posted on 12/04/2001 5:28:44 PM PST by JMJ333
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To: Chad Fairbanks
My sons are 11, 15, 17 and 19. There are a couple of teachers at their school who "tutor" the boys, and they talk about them. I spotted one of them as a perv the first time I saw her. It seems to be the trendy thing now. The teachers (and many of the girls) are aggressive and scary - and rather than making men out of the boys, they are emasculating them with their power games.
When girls fail to be ladies, men will fail to be gentlemen - and civilization breaks down. HONOR needs to be restored, and that begins with adults teaching (school!) girls and boys to behave honorably toward one another with self-respect. Without it, society becomes a pigpen.
162 posted on 12/04/2001 5:30:14 PM PST by ValerieUSA
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To: Torie
I can agree with that... Now, if I was 14, I'd probably disagree, but as a mature (mostly) responsible adult, I agree...
163 posted on 12/04/2001 5:30:37 PM PST by Chad Fairbanks
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To: PJ-Comix
Don't worry gals, this chick will go to prison like that teacher in Washington State, while murderers traitors and rapists and 60s terrorists (I don't need to provide names do I?) travel the lecture circuit, search for real killers on golf courses and write books. Happy now? Yeah, free Mumia! You know well enough that all serial killers currently in prison have their pen pal chicks and housewives in love with them in every state's Pleasantville, some even campaigning for the monsters' release, don't you?

Fortunately, we're still pretty uptight in this country about sexual matters to send this teacher up the river for a few years. That'll teach her!

}In the meantime, let's watch the big nothing that's going to come out of the current Johnny Walker affair. He's a "good boy", ain't he?!

164 posted on 12/04/2001 5:30:50 PM PST by Revolting cat!
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To: Chad Fairbanks
Pigman - it was YOU who used this term, not I:
Whom was I porking at age 14?
165 posted on 12/04/2001 5:32:04 PM PST by ValerieUSA
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To: JMJ333
Ok, whatever, but the jury will. And while you think there are damages, must be damages, how can there not be damages, it in fact appears that there are none. Thus the jury would be right.
166 posted on 12/04/2001 5:32:22 PM PST by Torie
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To: ValerieUSA
Now, I agree with you - so don't get me wrong (although I disagree with your blanket condemnations of the entire male gender).
167 posted on 12/04/2001 5:35:10 PM PST by Chad Fairbanks
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To: JMJ333
You are correct. She was wrong. But you can't blame the perpetually horny 14 yr old boy for going along with it. Or P-J Comix for pointing that bit of widely known truth out.
168 posted on 12/04/2001 5:35:31 PM PST by Republic of Texas
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To: Torie
I'm sure you're probably right. If I were his mother I would have to do something to rectify the situation if she didn't receive jail time. I would just want to make her understand that she won't be doing this to anymore children. I guess it sounds stupid to sue in civil court. Parden my overprotectiveness.
169 posted on 12/04/2001 5:36:25 PM PST by JMJ333
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To: ValerieUSA
I'm so glad you caught that - I was beginning to fear you'd overlook it ;0)
170 posted on 12/04/2001 5:36:39 PM PST by Chad Fairbanks
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To: Chad Fairbanks
I didn't say Men are pigs, I said "Men are pigs" is a slogan and you guys are proving it. There is a difference.
I could also say there is a myth that female teachers who corrupt their young male students are sexy, and this teacher here disproves it. She's a skank.
171 posted on 12/04/2001 5:40:23 PM PST by ValerieUSA
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To: innocentbystander
You're answer proves how low class you are.You are rude and boorish and always one to play the big swinging dick.You should apologize to her for saying that about her kids, who you don't know, but thought it could be appropriate for them to receive a BJ from the teach...because you sure would.

It's not prurience or being a ninny to not want to be privy to your fantasties, or what you think others should do in a similar situation.You're an ass.

172 posted on 12/04/2001 5:40:34 PM PST by habs4ever
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To: EricOKC
People don't always look their best in court.
173 posted on 12/04/2001 5:40:55 PM PST by xm177e2
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To: ValerieUSA
Skank? I agree... she's certainy a two-bagger - but to a 14 YO boy, and her with 37" rack-a-roos??? Different perspective :0)
175 posted on 12/04/2001 5:42:45 PM PST by Chad Fairbanks
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To: PJ-Comix
THIS is a "hot teacher"??? You gotta be kidding me. Times must be tough out there.
176 posted on 12/04/2001 5:43:08 PM PST by greccogirl
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To: Chad Fairbanks
Well, according to the low opinion most of you men here have about 14 yr old boys, I imagine they are all lusting after their own mothers, aunts, grandmas and sisters if these women happen to have a "rack".
177 posted on 12/04/2001 5:45:33 PM PST by ValerieUSA
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To: PJ-Comix
Dude, what are you talking about? She's nasty!
179 posted on 12/04/2001 5:45:46 PM PST by billybudd
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To: ValerieUSA
I didn't say Men are pigs, I said "Men are pigs" is a slogan and you guys are proving it. There is a difference.

With respect, there is no difference. You insulted your own sons as well as me and every other man who does make an effort to be a gentleman. That's why I flamed you. My apologies, but you had it coming and you know it.

180 posted on 12/04/2001 5:47:04 PM PST by Billthedrill
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