[ArGee]

They showed meanness, sarcasm, intimidation, and didn't show any respect for the kids.

Good call. IMO: The opposite extreme is just as bad - trying to befriend the kids. You don't need to be their jailor and you don't need to be their buddy. Neither will gain respect. The students will respect someone who tries to teach them as an adult teacher to a youth student. Any attempt at any other relationship is bound to lead to grief.

Shalom.

[RJayneJ]

I agree. What kid wants a 50 year old playmate? The old adage still holds true, kids don't do what you say, they do what you do. If they would have a code of conduct and teach civility and manners, and not a punch list of punishments, one they started at grade 1, we would see a better adult citizen.

If a frog had wings he wouldn't bump his butt when he hops.