Before I call you a liar (which would not, of course, be insulting), please refer me to a single published dictionary that defines 'fascist' as 'advocating government regulation of private business'.
Every governemnt in the world, bar none, regulates private business to some degree. Ergo, according to your mythical dictionary, every government in the world is fascist.
Which lets Mussolini and Hitler off the hook, doesn't it?
From MSN Encarta online dictionary:
fascism or Fascism noun dictatorial movement: any movement, tendency, or ideology that favors dictatorial government, centralized control of private enterprise, repression of all opposition, and extreme nationalism
Are you going to tell me that a government that dictates what one can or can't do with his private business regarding a legal activity is not 'dictatorial'? 'Centralized control' does not refer strictly to the monetary aspects of a business. Control exerted over a private enterprise's ability to make its own decisions regarding a legal activity sure sounds like it fits the above definition. I grant you that you aren't desirous of repressing all opposition to your nonsmoking bars, so maybe your views are just slightly fascist. Once again, I am not calling you a fascist, just your opinion in this matter.