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You really need to file a complaint with your paster. There needs to be documentation of her behavior because (and I hate to say this) someday she may get angry being rebuked and make false accusations. For his own protection no male (including the minister) should get in a situation where he is alone with her.

I agree. Apparently the youth group leader attempted to curb this girl's behavior, but to no avail. The pastor's wife spoke to the girl's mother, and the mom didn't really care that she was hugging the married men of the congregation.

Her parents force her to attend church with them until she's 18, and it's my opinion that part of her slutty clothing and acting-out is an attempt to get them to let her stay home. To be honest, a lot of folks wish they *would* keep her home if she's going to behave like that.

The pastor refuses to bring the issue to resolution, which is sadly not the worst he's done. Several families have left since he arrived. He showed one personality during the call process, then about 6 months after he was called he pulled a Dr. Jekyll/Mr. Hyde on the congregation. I believe my parents would leave if their friends weren't at this church.

Fiance and I are glad to be getting out. I no longer live in the area, and we have found a church around here that we like. He has to drive nearly 30 minutes to meet me there, but no biggie. :)