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I agree. There is a chorister in our church who wears short, tight skirts that I personally think are inappropriate. But because she's the daughter of the organist, who seems to have more sway than anyone in the church save the pastor, nobody says anything. (as a side not, I was secretly cheering when my newborn son puked over my shoulder and onto her little mini-skirt. she was appalled...she has no kids and has never been a 'kid person'). My understanding of the OP here was that modesty was not the question so much as casual attire. Fortunately, modesty (or lack thereof) is not really an issue at our church, which is also a rural church.