I've given you straight answers about the Catholic faith, but everytime you get an answer you have more questions, which is fine. But as I stated, this thread is not about giving you a lesson in basic Catholic doctrine and I'd like to keep it on topic. I take it from your response about my offer of RCIA classes that you really aren't interested.
Telling me that to go to heaven I must be "God's friend" is hardly a straight answer. How can one hear that answer and comply with it?