You don't know enough to understand what an Arminian is, I'm afraid.
And GET OVER THE INFANT BAPTIZING!!!!!! It's no good!
Now, you please watch my lips. I am a Baptist, not a Presbyterian. (You don't pay attention very well, do you?)
And your OP friend stoped answering when I refuted all of his posting which was bastardizing Scripture.
I read your exchange with OP. You refuted nothing he said. As I recall, you just threw a few irrelevant "proof-text" ideas and some confused allegations at him. You did this to avoid directly addressing what he was really saying.
You need to relax and notice what OP was saying. You need to notice that his theology of conversion of the sovereignty of God is correct--and that you ought to be quiet and learn.
Now, go play somewhere else and get a life. Or I will be forced to post to you over and over again "Whosoever Believeth" until you start believing God.
OP and I both believe the "Whosoever will" passages. John 3:16 happens to be one of my favorite verses for reasons which you would not be inclined to understand. Your problem at this point is that you don't know how precious the free offer of the gospel is to a Calvinist. This is because you don't understand the theology contained in God's Word very well. You just think you do.
That's why you are stuck right where you are.