If I can't say such a thing about you, then you can't say it about me. And yet you did say it.
Think about that.
What this means is that you are judgmental for insinuating that I am judgmental. Gosh, JMJ333, I am just offering you a sincere and, I believe, important appraisal based on the Scriptures themselves. You really do seem to lack the necessary experience of conversion under God's Word.
I know a lot of ex-RCs who would tell you the same thing.
For the sake of the argument, maybe I am completely wrong. But then again, maybe I'm not. Maybe you completely lack salvation. If that is the case, am I being mean-spirited for telling you what is wrong?