If you do not have time to figure out what you believe that is your business.
Sorry, Rn, but marlowe wins this one. You asked HIM if he believes in FREE GRACE. He asked you to define what YOU mean. You sent him a sermon from Wesley. He asked you again for a summary of your belief. You then tell him that if he can't figure out what he believes then that's his problem.
Rn, that is worse than circular logic. That's circular obfuscation.
When YOU say free grace, what do YOU mean?