Nothing like setting up a strawman right in the beginning.
Those who believe that man has a will do not necessary follow the extreme Arminians who deny that God controls history. God can give man choices and still accomplish all that He wants to accomplish.
To be honest 20 years as a Catholic and 22 years as a Protestant have lead me to beleive that this is all I really know 100%.
God Bless
Mel
PS. That does not mean I am not grateful for people such as yourself who are willing to look into these things. I must say however that I neither understand or am convinced by most of the things that you speak of. All I know is God saved me and that I love him for it and I try to do as He asks of me.