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Why I Left My Megachurch
From House to House ^ | John Porter

Posted on 05/01/2025 7:55:50 AM PDT by CondoleezzaProtege

Recalling a sober moment he had while at Cornerstone Church, Chan said he baptized a kid from a gang but that kid later left though he was quite involved in the church.

"One of my friends asked him, 'Hey, how come you're not at Cornerstone anymore?'

He said 'I didn't understand church. When I was baptized, I thought that was going to be being jumped into the gang where it's like 24/7 they're my family, because I didn't know it was just somewhere we attend on Sundays."

When Chan heard that, he said it made him sick.

"That makes me so sick that the gangs are a better picture of family than the church of Jesus Christ. I can't live with that. … We're going to do something different."

… Bestselling author Francis Chan recently exposed his heart to Facebook employees, detailing why he left the helm of his thriving megachurch in California…

(Excerpt) Read more at fromhousetohouse.org ...


TOPICS: Evangelical Christian
KEYWORDS: church; evangelism; gospel; megachurch; money2besaved; prosperitygospel; savedbydonations

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1 posted on 05/01/2025 7:55:50 AM PDT by CondoleezzaProtege
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To: CondoleezzaProtege

Megachurches = “industrial religion.”


2 posted on 05/01/2025 7:57:59 AM PDT by Carry_Okie (The tree of liberty needs a rope.)
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To: CondoleezzaProtege

This was a sobering article. A lot of what he says rings true, not just in “mega-churches,” but in much smaller congregations as well.


3 posted on 05/01/2025 8:05:39 AM PDT by fwdude (Why is there a "far/radical right," but damned if they'll admit that there is a far/radical left?)
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To: Carry_Okie

Boils down to money and can I post this on social media to look pious.


4 posted on 05/01/2025 8:13:37 AM PDT by Resolute Conservative
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To: CondoleezzaProtege

I think it’s a fair article, but I would definitely balance the article out by saying that we are all human and will never reach perfection on earth, and that goes for the church. Further, let’s be honest, the kids from gangs or the kid from the now ubiquitous broken home is new to the last generation or so it’s going to take some time to figure out how to better minister to these people.

There’s no need to make excuses for people or for the church, but it always strikes me that it smacks as pride to stand back, supposedly above the fray, and level criticism at the Church or at other Christians. As long as Christians and the Church are genuinely striving to be obedient to Jesus then grace should be easily extended. Let’s stop trying to find the speck in others.


5 posted on 05/01/2025 8:18:55 AM PDT by Obadiah
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To: CondoleezzaProtege

This was 2017.


6 posted on 05/01/2025 8:19:52 AM PDT by exnavy (See article IV section 4 of our constitution.)
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To: fwdude

Agreed. Church cliques are ridiculous. Groups of middle-aged adults reliving their high school years. Visitors that are brought in from the community get referred to as “THOSE PEOPLE”. Disgusting. My wife and I went the home church route years ago and never looked back. All are welcome at the church we attend. We will even go out into the detached garage for more room if need be. The funds we raise are used to help the community, versus paying for shiny facilities and rock band equipment.


7 posted on 05/01/2025 8:27:44 AM PDT by flair2000
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To: CondoleezzaProtege

I go to a large church where I understand that I’m entirely on my own if I have any problems. The church’s role is to offer mental balance, stability, and encouragement. For parents, it’s a place to bring their kids to Sunday school.

I have a bible study in which I understand that I’m entirely on my own if I have any problems. Again the role of the bible study is to give mental balance, stability and encouragement.

I’ve been to many churches in many denominations. This model is pretty much the same everywhere.


8 posted on 05/01/2025 8:36:25 AM PDT by ckilmer
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To: CondoleezzaProtege

I attend the church of Hipshot Percussion. Praise the Lord


9 posted on 05/01/2025 8:44:11 AM PDT by Vaquero (Don't pick a fight with an old guy. If he is too old to fight, he'll just kill you. )
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To: CondoleezzaProtege

The secret to mega-churches that succeed, IMO, is small groups. That is the “real” church, IMO.


10 posted on 05/01/2025 8:44:15 AM PDT by cuban leaf (2024 is going to be one for the history books, like 1939. And 2025 will be more so, like 1940-1945.)
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To: Obadiah
...we are all human and will never reach perfection on earth...

Speak for yourself. I get prettier each and every day. Wiser, too. 

11 posted on 05/01/2025 8:44:38 AM PDT by GingisK
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To: Vaquero
I attend the church of Hipshot Percussion. Praise the Lord

What, you gave up the church St. Cecelia Posturepedic?

12 posted on 05/01/2025 8:47:33 AM PDT by 1Old Pro
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To: ckilmer
IMHO a lot of it depends on the person. Churches large and small promote getting to know each other in various groups (call it "Sunday school" or "small group"). Whether or not a person gives that a try --- there's only so much you can blame the church leaders. And if the church is small, meaning not many groups to try to make relationships with, you can blame the people in the group for being too clique.

But it would seem that in a large church there ought to be some small groups with good people to build relationships with if you give them a try.

13 posted on 05/01/2025 8:50:43 AM PDT by Tell It Right (1 Thessalonians 5:21 -- Put everything to the test, hold fast to that which is true.)
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To: CondoleezzaProtege

Mega-churches use small groups for fellowship.


14 posted on 05/01/2025 8:51:40 AM PDT by AppyPappy (If Hitler were alive today and criticized Trump, would he still be Hitler?)
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To: Vaquero

Rick O Shay!


15 posted on 05/01/2025 8:53:03 AM PDT by Inyo-Mono
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To: CondoleezzaProtege

So many people who call themselves Christians lack the discernment that comes with the acceptance of the Holy Spirit when a Christian truly turns their life over to Christ. That discernment would enable them to see thru the lies told by the false teachers running these megachurches. I am glad to hear that even one person was able to obtain the level of discernment necessary to break free from one of Satan’s biggest churches.


16 posted on 05/01/2025 9:02:24 AM PDT by TonyM (Score Event)
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To: CondoleezzaProtege

Even in my small church there are cliques, but I found that Jesus’ solution is always best. I love those who are the cliquest the most, talking even more sweetly to them and listening to their smallest compalints.

After awhile, even there friends start to wonder about them.


17 posted on 05/01/2025 9:04:47 AM PDT by wbarmy (Trying to do better.)
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To: CondoleezzaProtege
Just to add a little scripture. I Thes chapter 4, Paul discusses human behaviors that ‘win the favor of the Lord’; to include, “make it your ambition to lead a quiet life: You should mind your own business and work with your hands, just as we told you, 12 so that your daily life may win the respect of outsiders and so that you will not be dependent on anybody.” (Verses 11 & 12).

The book of Proverbs is all about being a ‘worker bee’; not sure why modern churches push ‘dependency’ on the congregation. We should ALWAYS be willing to help a brother in need, but also excel in independent living.

18 posted on 05/01/2025 9:22:37 AM PDT by 11th_VA
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To: Tell It Right

It sounds like you have never needed anyone’s help at any church you have attended beyond fellowship and mental stability,instruction and encouragement.

That’s excellent.

I’m not blaming church leaders or anyone.

Chan’s point is that churches do not form blood brother bonds as do gangs. But he misses the second part. Gangs form those kinds of tight bonds because they commit crimes.


19 posted on 05/01/2025 9:26:25 AM PDT by ckilmer
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To: Tell It Right

Now, an exception here is the Amish. They do give considerable real-world support to each other. But again. They have to because they are outside of the mainstream. They also inculcate a culture of hard work.


20 posted on 05/01/2025 9:28:35 AM PDT by ckilmer
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