I don’t claim to be perfect. It’s not a holier than thou thing. It’s, if you want the best for yourself and to have the best society, thing.
I totally get that married people do cheat and most people aren’t equipped to know how to have lifetime marriages. But the consequences are the same. The farther that we wander away from sexual integrity, the closer to disappearing as a society that we get.
God is not going to fool around on this point. Whenever Israel stopped being sexually integrous, He let Israel suffer from the consequences of that and God told Israel that, if they insisted on going their way, that God would make them a rumour of a nation because they would be a disappeared nation.
Yes, the Christian way is the way that we were meant to function. I’m going to stand firm on that, despite whatever imperfections we have as a society.
Most of those humans you mention are trying to flee their society because of the values of their societies. Their sexual unintegrity is making their societies terrible places to be.
You are free to accept or reject what you wish, but God will not spare you from the consequences of your choices in life. If the West perists in what it is doing, the West will become a rumour to other civilizations.
At this moment, Muslims seem to be on the ascendant and many Western nations suffer from low birth rates. Eventually, there won’t be enough young people to take care of the old people in Western societies. You can keep your sexual hangups. The way we are currently going, a few generations from now, “Christian” churches will be razed for mosques. You will have kept your sexual whatchamacallit. And no one will remember, or care.