I wasnt there to take account of who was there.
All I can tell from the scriptures is that Christ’s mother was told to go home with one of His Disciples.
That’s it.
That’s all the scriptures say.
I do know when the bible says Maybe didn’t ‘know her’ until after Christ was born doesn’t mean he met her after the event..
Maybe you need to brush up on biblical marriage and the covenant that’s created when the man ‘knows’ his bride..
Were you there when Mary supposedly bore other children?