The future has always been created by men, for better or worse the males of the world saw futures they wanted, family legacies, the permanence of their peoples, the greatness of their nation or tribe, offspring and ancestors meant something, future generations meant something, men tend to think they impact the future, women are interested in the now, for themselves and their immediate comfort and stability.
In a feminized society of woman raised children and female run institutions, education and politics, the individual’s view of life and human existence shrinks and their world becomes small and focused on themselves and their oneness, their comfort and easiness of life, some start questioning the burden of carrying a child and delivering one and raising one, some today are even questioning the burden of a permanent male being a part of their comfortable little micro life.
Children and husbands are no longer something to aspire to but possible disruptions and unwanted challenges in what are tidy, simple little lives focused on perfect harmony in one’s own structured, unchallenging life where the highlights are more self-indulgence, self-pampering and the purity of one’s own unchallenged thoughts and emotions.
Children and husbands are introducing unknown humans into your bubble and without question bring a degree of chaos and constant newness to the princess and the pea world and require self-sacrifice for the group.
Some of this was evidenced in the decades of women who submitted to their biological impulse for children but then limited them in number and did it without accepting the adult human who was their father, children as better versions of pets, something to come home to and adore them but manageable for many years, in time some women decide not to bother with those distractions at all, a nice wardrobe serves them better.
In general terms, in a affluent country, enabled by contraception, this is much the norm. Spoiled, in one or two child families, not learning delayed gratification, increasingly "a very froward generation, children in whom is no faith." (Deuteronomy 32:20) However, in His mercy, more are seeking answers, and God can move hearts, while the need for street-level evangelical workers are needed.