My apologies if you or others take my reply as too brunt or forward.
Let me just say this...I would rather warn a friend, in both thought and action,
than to have said nothing to their ruin.
You've made it through the foothills and their dangers,
now come the mountains and their horrors.
Prepare as if for battle, spiritually.
Your very soul depends upon it.
JMO, YMMV