I think you just proved my point.
He proved his point. Jesus loves His bride, the church. He established it with clear directions for the leadership and duties of His people. They did not include “every man an Island!!” Your insult of His people in such sweeping generalizations is a sin.
He said we will be known by how we love each other. Examine your assertion in light of that.
But see if you avoid church you avoid in person rebuke don’t you?