You have to also wonder how all matter, existing compressed in a tiny single molecule suddenly exploded. Why? With no additional matter and no additional change, why explode? Why not just remain? Also, the anti-theists need to explain where that matter originated.
As to where it comes from, I don't have to explain anything because theists don't explain it. ("God did it" isn't an explanation.) But I did listen once to a Canadian astrophysicist named Lawrence M. Krauss who gave a talk called "A Universe from Nothing." It was on YouTube. It made sense to me, although I didn't retain much, because I'm not really that interested. I think most of this debate is pretty pointless.