It’s no surprise you said this. It makes you a Nicolaitan, pure and simple. Using God’s grace to justify a free pass on willful, non-repentant sin will cause many born againers to lose their salvation.
Tsk tsk tsk, there you go again. Once a human being is born again, they cannot become unborn. If you need help with this, start at John 3 and Jesus’s conversation with Nicodemus. Note if you can that Jesus refers Nic back to the serpent on the pole in the desert. There is deep meaning there which apparently you either have yet to grasp or have decided to reject. After you get that passage studied, I will give you more. But know this, Phil, your bullying, baiting, and efforts to promote false witness are exposing a very bad spirit in you. God can take care of that predicament, if you will let Him do it: faithful is he that calletyh you for He will also do it; many are called but few are chosen; so if many are called why are sop few chosen? ... Because they refuse to let HIM do the work because their pride insists they aren’t so bad as to need absolute Grace.