For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.
As I meditated on this just now, I realized there is a vital corollary: in forgiving another, complete forgiveness includes the desire for forgiveness also by God. We cannot play the false game of "I'll forgive, but You still must get him."

Amen