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For true healing, abuse survivors urge church to hear their stories
Catholic News Service ^ | April 18, 2021 | Dennnis Sedowski

Posted on 04/18/2021 2:56:03 PM PDT by Marchmain

CLEVELAND — A trio of survivors of sexual abuse are inviting the Catholic Church — from parishioners in the pews to the bishops who lead dioceses — to join them on their journey toward healing and reconciliation.

The invitation from Mike Hoffman, who chairs the Archdiocese of Chicago’s Hope and Healing Committee, Mark Williams, a special adviser to Cardinal Joseph W. Tobin of Newark, New Jersey, and a deacon in the Diocese of Joliet, Illinois who asked to remain anonymous is meant to help the wider church heal as well.

And that means hearing their stories and those of other sexual abuse victims-survivors, they told Catholic News Service in mid-April, which is Child Sexual Abuse Prevention Month and Sexual Assault Awareness Month.

It’s their belief that by hearing those stories, Catholics will be touched and begin to realize that churchwide healing from the wounds of abuse is a long process, as their own yearslong recovery attests.

They also believe that actions to prevent future abuse must encompass more than the “checklist” of requirements outlined in the U.S. bishops’ 2002 “Charter for the Protection of Children and Young People.”

“Nobody knows what a survivor needs than a survivor him(self) or herself,” said Hoffman, who was abused by a priest as a 12-year-old at his family’s parish.

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Is this a helpful approach?
1 posted on 04/18/2021 2:56:03 PM PDT by Marchmain
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To: Marchmain

Can’t really say. But the church is still hiding from the past.


2 posted on 04/18/2021 2:58:44 PM PDT by irish guard
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To: Marchmain

seems fair, whos the leader?


3 posted on 04/18/2021 2:59:06 PM PDT by mylife (The Roar Of The Masses Could Be Farts)
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To: Marchmain

The church is unwilling to be held accountable, so it won’t help.

From what I understand in psychology, there is no healing to be had from repeating, over and over, your trauma. All one can really do is not pass it onto the children. Let them live your trauma free life and let them become adults who had good childhoods. That’s what one can do when coming from an abused background.


4 posted on 04/18/2021 3:08:58 PM PDT by Jonty30 (What Islam and secularism have in common is that they are both death cults. )
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To: Jonty30

Apparently they abused a lot of Alaskan children. Grown old men cry when they talk about the abuse.


5 posted on 04/18/2021 3:37:27 PM PDT by Cowgirl
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To: Cowgirl

It is terrible. Vatican II was an evil decision.


6 posted on 04/18/2021 3:48:48 PM PDT by Jonty30 (What Islam and secularism have in common is that they are both death cults. )
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To: Marchmain

Tell your story to Cardinal TOBIN??? Uh, no. That very name tells you this is yet another CYA operation from bishops trying to protect what’s left of their assets.


7 posted on 04/18/2021 3:55:04 PM PDT by madprof98
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To: madprof98

+1


8 posted on 04/18/2021 5:12:41 PM PDT by ebb tide (We have a rogue curia in Rome.)
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To: Marchmain
“churchwide healing from the wounds of abuse”

I don’t even know what this means. Sound like a shakedown.

9 posted on 04/19/2021 7:51:30 AM PDT by circlecity
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To: circlecity

It’s what society does now, create a victim class and let them dominate the decisions.


10 posted on 04/19/2021 12:32:02 PM PDT by Marchmain (i vote pro-life)
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