“I do not demand that they love me.”
You are full of horse crap!!! If that pet bit you, growled at you, bit your sons, daughters, friends, tore up your furniture, bath roomed everywhere, and ignored you, you know good and well you would separate and get rid of that “beloved” pet.
Those descriptions above are so small compared to a Holy God looking upon our disgusting sin. You are lying to yourself and thinking in small human terms and not very good at that.
Yet if that car, house, or washer you own didn’t work when and how you wanted you would either replace or fix in a heart beat. You get in your car to go to the grocery store, but car goes to the swamp you wouldn’t say that’s ok. You say to washer I need clean clothes, but washer says no I think I’ll take the year off. Be honest you are a hypocrite and use double standards and compare God to faulty logic that even you are not willing to deal with.
Matthew 5:45
Repent and accept the Lord Jesus Christ as your personal Savior.
If they pee everywhere, they generally have a health problem and I take them to the vet. A good owner does not let health problems go unattended. A perfect, benevolent, omnipotent god wouldn't let health problems even exist.
And as for them ignoring me and shredding my furniture, they're cats. It's what they do. I love them anyway. My love for them is not dependent on their love for me. It helps, of course, but my benevolence to them is without requirement. If your God cannot even be as good a pet owner as I am, the most likely explanation is that he's a figment of someone's imagination.