And then we wonder why we are chastised.
He will do/allow what is necessary to get us to that point, I suppose based upon us and what we give him with our wants and choices.
Ive learned the hard way that I have several bundles of choice, kiln dried 2x10x20 planks in my eyes.
Fortunately, Hes teaching me how to drive my mental/emotional forklift so I can move them back to the warehouse where they belong.
Once I do that, I might, might, be qualified to help with anyones splinters, should anyone ever ask for my help.