I agree it used to work out -— for some -—in your grandparents’ era. But “back in the day” (and I mean way back, 50’s-60’s AD) St. Paul said it tended to tear a man apart, trying to be all-out working for the Church and yet keeping his wife and family cared-for and content.
The flipside of that is, as my father used to observe, that in Protestant denominations where the pastors may marry the church ends up gaining a HUGE amount of free labor from the pastor’s wife.
I have friends whose kids are ministers and this is undeniably true.
Yet the first Pope, St. Peter had a wife,remember Jesus healed his MIL.