Your Church may have a husband but it's not Jesus Christ...Jesus does not yet have a bride...He has a fiance'...
It's nice that you found some scripture to read but if you look at a verse or 2 in the near vicinity the reference to a wife is after the earth is completely destroyed...
If you look in chapter 19 you will see that the bride marries the groom (in heaven) while the earth (and its people) is being devastated by the plagues of God...And it hasn't taken place yet...
And you may then notice that after the wedding the heavens are opened and Jesus and his bride, the bible church, head to earth to finish off the enemies of Israel...
Your Church teaches you that it and the rest of the living Catholics will be here on earth prior to and during that 2nd Coming of Jesus with his church... If that is true, your Church can not possibly be the bride of Christ since (1) there is no bride as of yet and (2) the bride is not on the earth and will not be on the earth until Jesus returns, since the church/bride returns with Jesus...
Anyone can know these things, if they will read the bible...
How different churches understand scriptures.