You have not a clue the difference between being judged for eternal life and being judged for rewards at the Bema Seat of Christ, in Heaven.
You DO want to argue.
I pray all the time for them that the Holy Spirit opens their eyes to understand that they can NEVER merit, deserve or earn their salvation which is why it is because of God's mercy and grace alone that we can be saved. He gifts to us eternal life by His grace THROUGH faith and not of anything of ourselves - not of works so that no one may boast. I pray that they will come to understand just how much God loves them and what Jesus Christ suffered and died for so that we can have eternal life. No one says that we shouldn't live in obedience to God so that He is glorified and honored - that IS what He created us to do - but that our works do not contribute to our salvation. Jesus paid it all - IT IS FINISHED - he said. By His one sacrifice, he has perfected forever those who are being saved - we have been sanctified through the sacrifice of the body of Jesus Christ once for all. I sincerely hope they will come to know the peace of God in Christ Jesus and rejoice in the assurance of their salvation - to the glory of God.