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Who’s Minding the Kids?
Ancient Faith Ministries ^ | August 28, 2019 | Fr. Stephen Freeman

Posted on 08/28/2019 8:24:38 AM PDT by Carpe Cerevisi

I was sitting in a Sunday School class, and was probably around eight or nine years old. I cannot remember what the Scripture was that day. However, the room was brought into a very serious state of mind as we were presented with something and were asked to sign it. I had never entered into a contract before, but had a sense that it was a very serious thing. The contract was known as the “pledge.” The point was a promise: not to smoke or drink before age 21. I was not entirely sure of the point of the exercise. My father, who was over 21, both smoke and drank, as did his father and his brother. That’s to say that the men in my life smoked and drank. What I gathered that day was that smoking and drinking were bad for children and that I needed to be older before I started. Of course, for the ladies who taught the class, the point was something other. The assumption was that a person would not drink or smoke if they delayed the matter until later. It was an assumption for which I’m not sure there was any proof.

As it was, I did not smoke until I was 13, the same year I had my first serious experience with alcohol (a bottle of Richard’s Wild Irish Rose stolen from the local A&P grocery by a friend, consumed in his daddy’s cornfield). The pledge was dead.

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TOPICS: Moral Issues; Orthodox Christian; Religion & Culture
KEYWORDS: character; children; parenting; virtue
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1 posted on 08/28/2019 8:24:38 AM PDT by Carpe Cerevisi
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To: Carpe Cerevisi

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I oppose kids smoking, drinking, or using drugs, I am leery of having them make vows. This can destroy a tender conscience.


2 posted on 08/28/2019 9:57:28 AM PDT by Persevero (Desmond is not -Amazing- Desmond is -Abused-)
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