Um, not quite. The first part was an old attitude coming from Paul talking about women being modestly adorned, but some took it to extreme.
The second part of your experience - pure wrong. No Christ-following Christian, Pentecostal or otherwise, would/should ever lay a hand on their wife for ANYTHING, let alone not having breakfast ready. Any man who did that was sinning before The Lord, pure and simple.
All I know is I got sick of how he treated his wife and it came to a head when he beat her for not havi g food ready one Sunday afternoon. I introduced his face to a mohogany table for it. He called the police, but they saw the marks on his wife, but she refused to press charges. Of course this was in backwoods Louisiana so they didn’t take me in when they saw what he did to his wife.
The whole experience put a bad taste in my mouth about pentacostals, and this guys parents and one brother of his that I did meet were the same way.