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Inside The World Of Russian Orthodox Dating
Radio Free Europe ^ | 02-14-2019 | Matthew Luxmoore

Posted on 02/16/2019 4:38:07 PM PST by NRx

MOSCOW -- On a recent snowy Sunday, the 17th-century Dormition Church was drawing evening Mass to a close. The ethereal chants that had for two hours entranced a standing congregation still echoed off the intricately painted walls as Father Aleksy Gomonov retreated to the sacristy to remove his vestments.

But his sizeable, surprisingly young flock remained. As tables were brought in and arranged in neat rows among the ancient icons and golden candelabra, the crowd began to mingle. Off came the thick winter coats, and out came the smartphones. Numbers were traded, eye contact held or averted, and a subdued atmosphere of piety gave way to flirtation and giggles.

It was the latest gathering of the Peter and Fevronia Club, a sort of speed-dating night for Moscow's Orthodox Christians. Each Sunday, after the week's final service, Gomonov brings together the single men and women of his parish, and anyone else keen to join. As they chat over cucumber sandwiches and black tea, he dispenses relationship advice mixed with church teachings.

Many come to find their other half, the old-fashioned way. Others seek a companion for walks, church events, or pilgrimages. And Gomonov, a happily married father of two? He's just killing time.

"I have nothing better to do," he said, his eyes scanning the room over a pair of glasses perpetually balanced on the tip of his nose. "And the youth have nothing to do either."

At 67, Gomonov sports an impressive white beard and a mane of strawberry-blond hair. In the 20 years since he took charge of the Dormition Church, he has fostered a community like few others in Moscow. Parishioners have a dedicated summer camp and a program of civic engagement. They organize ballroom-dancing classes and pilgrimages to sacred Orthodox sites.

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To: NorseViking

I agree with your assessment. Luxmoore didn’t want the reader to garner a positive impression of this Orthodox Church social gathering, rather that it was backward and oppressive.


21 posted on 02/17/2019 6:29:33 PM PST by Navy Patriot (America NEEDS Mob Rule, another European and Mid East World War and a universal Draft)
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To: cherry

in the Catholic church girls and women were required to wear something on their heads...
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I have fond memories of those days.


22 posted on 02/18/2019 7:59:04 AM PST by KittyKares (Drain the Swamp)
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To: NRx

“evening Mass?”


23 posted on 02/19/2019 6:19:26 AM PST by FormerLib (Sacrificing our land and our blood cannot buy protection from jihad.-Bishop Artemije of Kosovo)
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To: FormerLib

The author is not Orthodox. Most likely he is referring to Vespers which is celebrated on Saturdays and the evening before any day where the Divine Liturgy is to be served.


24 posted on 02/19/2019 6:54:23 AM PST by NRx (A man of honor passes his father's civilization to his son without surrendering it to strangers.)
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To: NRx

I was thinking the same. I’m just amazed at how many “journalists” know so very little about what they are reporting.


25 posted on 02/19/2019 2:38:20 PM PST by FormerLib (Sacrificing our land and our blood cannot buy protection from jihad.-Bishop Artemije of Kosovo)
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To: cherry
several decades ago in the Catholic church girls and women were required to wear something on their heads...a hat, often a small lacy doily would do

That honorable tradition still thrives in the Latin Mass community. May it increase, and may the post-conciliar madness decrease.

26 posted on 02/19/2019 2:41:39 PM PST by NorthMountain (... the right of the peopIe to keep and bear arms shall not be infringed)
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