The Calvinists I knew did NOT share the gospel with me. I never found out they claimed to be Christian until well after I got saved.
I have actually read that when somehow sharing Christ with people you cannot tell them that Christ died for them because we don’t know who the elect are who Christ died for. Just somehow mention Jesus and if they are meant to be saved, they’ll get it.
It was a long time ago and I could not tell you who wrote that. I wish I could remember so I could point others to it. I have searched for it but the search led nowhere.
Sorry for the double post.
Don’t know how that happened.