I believe in pre-Trib rapture, but it has never been a case of being CHOSEN ONES to be in on the rapture.
But every one to their own belief.
“I believe our spirits will be taken up after we die, i think that is the rapture Paul was talking about”
Me, too. The Christians’ spirits are taken at the exact moment of death. (Absent from the body ... present with the Lord.) Bodies rise moments before the Rapture when the living saved on earth are taken up.