Paul seems to have a different take on what you suggest.
But now you also, put them all aside: anger, wrath, malice, slander, and abusive speech from your mouth. Colossians 3:8 NASB
Articulate people mix it up just as a language exercise; what else were you going to do to pass the time.
Perhaps get out that book that Roman Catholics claim ya'll gave to everyone and read it.
You say you’ve read the Bible, but you say St. Paul didn’t have arguments that included strong words? Hysterical.