Men can live in single room occupancy hotels, go to work and do their own thing afterwards. Could be drinking, chasing women or watching sports. It’s the women that are stuck holding the kids. Find a way to provide and protect them. Tribal families are better than the public schools.
Sounds like what I have seen the Philippines or West Africa
Women form the collective and provide mutual help/support. Men are somewhat ancillary, are much less loosely connected, and are often lazy/irresponsible, while women work.