[Boogieman]

“a heretical act from a Catholic perspective”

The “Catholic perspective” is whatever their church hierarchy says it is. If they are okay with it, then wouldn’t it be YOU who was the heretic for dissenting?

[ebb tide]

The “Catholic perspective” is whatever their church hierarchy says it is.

That's nonsense. The Catholic Church has always had hereitcs; unfortunately this time its pope may also be one.

But who am I to judge?

[ebb tide]

If they are okay with it, then wouldn’t it be YOU who was the heretic for dissenting?

No. Heretics cannot validly "correct" faithful Catholics.