We can live with her choice.
I sense there’s probably deeper issues with this lady, but it certainly doesn’t matter what we can live with. The truth is she has received Jesus who fully accepts her and she is righteous by faith (Rom 4:5) regardless of what others think.
However, the story contrasting Lot and Abraham is a story of two righteous men. Abraham was a victorious righteous man who followed the Lord, and Lot was a defeated righteous man (2 Pet 2:7) who followed the flesh and lost everything including his wife and whose daughters committed incest with him. May have some relevance here.