I don’t disagree with you in the least.
One of the problems is that Christians and Christian men don’t seem to have any idea how to be manly and a protector and an alpha male.
Christian men are equated with being weak and
Caspar Milquetoast types.
I suppose an example would be Donald Trump type men. Men who take a stand, fight for what they believe in, don’t take *No* for an answer, won’t compromise their values, do what they say, instead of someone who is basically a pacifist.
The turning the other cheek teaching has been misused to create a whole generation of men who don’t or won’t fight back when it’s necessary.
Women want to feel protected and pursued and don’t get that from men who compromise everything.
Great post.