[dragonblustar]

And then there’s those romance novels, which are just as bad to women as porn is to men. In either case, it’s adultery in the heart and inappropriate for God’s people.

Could be the result of something that's lacking or broken in their marriage. It won't lead to happiness but they use it as a coping mechanism for what ever that is lacking, usually intimacy.

[metmom]

Could be the result of something that's lacking or broken in their marriage. It won't lead to happiness but they use it as a coping mechanism for what ever that is lacking, usually intimacy.

I agree.

It's easier to delve into a fantasy land to deal with your problems than to face them.

That said, for anyone who thinks I'm condoning it. I'm not. I just recognize one of the roots of the problem.