What about the Christian guy I know of that went on a softball team trip to Yakima and while carousing with the rest of the team they were at a pizza place where there was this drop dead gorgious girl that all the guys were gawking at.
Except him. He loved his wife and ignored this woman.
In the end, he slept with her that night. Apparently his initial lack of interest is what made him the desirable conquest to this woman.
As soon as he met his wife at Seatac airport after the trip, he told her what happened and apologized. I assume they are still married to this day.
What he did was “willful”. Is he lost?