OK, red flag number one is the “ecumenical” monestary, number two is the word “patriarchal”, number three is the ignorance ( feigned or real ) about how the Church honors the female saints of the Gospels- to the point that we are accused of giving latria to Mary. The snide remark about the women being able to love more than men is presumption, especially considering the many male martyrs (unless they are speaking of Mary who did have the capacity to love more given the greater grace she received from God).
Nothing emasculates men more than many Catholics insistence that women are more “loving” or “good” than men and that it is women’s vocation to “make men “good”.
That assumption puts a burden on women no person can meet. How many women stay with infantilized men because “it is their duty to make him good?