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>> “Those under grace died to the law. We are under grace, not law.” <<
Grace is not something anyone can be “under.”
Grace is the strength to keep and “affirm” every word of Torah, that is given only to those that love his every word.
That grace does not permit us to sin (i.e. violate Torah) nor is it a license to do so.
1John is the complete guide to this, should you have any questions.
Good points.
Take it up with Paul. Or rather God.
That’s His saying it through Paul in Romans 6:14.