How did Vatican II personally affect you?
I can't think of how it personally affect me.
This is one man, one pope in 2000 years. He'll be dead in a few years and you can start in on the next pope who doesn't do what you think is right...which is your right, of course.
Do you believe that religious liberty is a human right? Do you believe that ecumenism is Catholic?
If you answer yes to these questions, Vatican II most certainly affected you personally.