Thats a good buzz word, "projecting." But it is irrelevant, lets get on point here. Do you believe that Jesus is God and therefore that Mary is the Mother of God?
Do you believe God is without beginning or end, eternal and not created?
You can't be a mother to God; that means God has a beginning -- and by extension, and end. God is eternal. Not created. Sufficient in himself.
Definitely -- let's get on point: Do you believe CCC 841 is correct? Do you believe Catholics and Muslims worship the same 'God' -- this is essential for our discussion; if you agree with Rome, then you cannot argue the point because you do not believe in God; you believe in Allah. If you reject Rome, then you are without standing with the points you're attempting to argue.
So, let's do get on point... God or Allah?
Hoss