I must be a theologian as I knew this obvious truth too.
You can desecrate Jesus yourself, but the Church will not tell you it is OK, only that it is your free will to bring damnation upon yourself. All that power we have!!
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I must also be part of your theologian club as I knew this obvious truth too. I even try not to judge the Catholic politicos who are reported to have broken the rules.
We are taught not to cast the first stone but some folks find that stone just too irresistible to toss when some Catholic politicos misbehave.
John 8:7 (KJV)
So when they continued asking him, he lifted up himself, and said unto them, He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at her.
P.S. The "her" in the sentence above DOES NOT refer to any politico.
That's not what Bergoglio, Kasper and Marx will tell you; but then again, none of them are "the Church".