-— but when they quit their acts of sodomy, and the underlying sick lust, it’s no longer a “sodomite relationship”. They can, withj the help of God’s grace, develop a spiritual friendship which conduces to their mutual sanctification.
You seem to view married couples who contracept and sodomite couples as existing on an equal plane. Sodomite relationships are unnatural not only on the physical plane but also on the spiritual and emotional planes. Eschewing the physical act does not negate the other issues.