BTW, I think in your first post here, you meant "palpable," not "palatable." ;-)
My mistake. You are correct.
You assert, "there's a difference between civil marriage and sacramental marriage". What the RC church fails to acknowledge is that a secular or non-RC marriage is a legitimate marriage. The first institution was marriage - not the church, RC or otherwise. That's the point that's missed!
The RC church's presumption that it can annul a legal marriage is an example of an arrogance and falseness that Christians have come to reject.