[ravenwolf]

Yeah, but there is also reality.

If a wife divorced a man ten years ago and he remarried and has five children with his second wife ne can not leave his wife and children and go back to his first wife with out doing much more wrong than he may have to begin with.

But he also should not take communion.

Do you believe in it or do you just like to ask that of others?

[ebb tide]

If a wife divorced a man ten years ago and he remarried and has five children with his second wife ne can not leave his wife and children and go back to his first wife with out doing much more wrong than he may have to begin with.

1. The man should have never remarried without a valid annulment.

2. If the man is repentant, he could continue to live with his "mistress" as brother and wife.

That's reality. One can't rationalize oneself out of sin. God knows all.